Here’s a classic folk song that makes the case for having a good work ethic — and for making good choices when they need to last a lifetime! Give the video a sing-along look, then let’s talk.
In every job that must be done …
I was 21 years old before anyone ever sat me down, looked me in the eyes, and helped me understand that work is a privilege, a joy, a gift. Before that, I thought work was a necessary evil, to be avoided or abbreviated whenever possible.
There is an element of fun …
I used to believe the opposite of work was fun.
The opposite of work is idleness
Work… is activity.
Fun… is activity.
Idleness… leaves me dull and bored.
The trick is to see the fun in the work.
You find the fun …
Have you read Tom Sawyer? Mark Twain gifted the world with one of the best scenes in literature. He sets the stage with the most perfectly beautiful, warm, lovely day imaginable. A day to play, swim, relax, drink in the blue sky and delicious air.
But not for Tom Sawyer. The worst has happened. He’s chained to WORK. Tom has to whitewash a huge fence. Worse yet, the snarky Ben Rodgers is approaching. Tom braces himself to be teased on account of his forced servitude. Suddenly, a flash of inspiration strikes Tom. See it play out in Mark Twain’s own words:
“Say—I’m going in a-swimming, I am. Don’t you wish you could? But of course you’d druther WORK—wouldn’t you? Course you would!”
Tom contemplated the boy a bit, and said:
“What do you call work?”
“Why, ain’t THAT work?”
Tom resumed his whitewashing, and answered carelessly:
“Well, maybe it is, and maybe it ain’t. All I know, is, it suits Tom Sawyer.”
“Oh come, now, you don’t mean to let on that you LIKE it?”
The brush continued to move.
“Like it? Well, I don’t see why I oughtn’t to like it. Does a boy get a chance to whitewash a fence every day?”
That put the thing in a new light. Ben stopped nibbling his apple. Tom swept his brush daintily back and forth—stepped back to note the effect—added a touch here and there—criticized the effect again—Ben watching every move and getting more and more interested, more and more absorbed. Presently he said:
“Say, Tom, let ME whitewash a little.”
And SNAP! The job’s a game
What follows is Tom Sawyer and those neighbor kids had more fun than they could have imagined on that beautiful day.
On the surface, Tom used his genius to get out of work, which would seem to support the idea that fun is the opposite of work. But step back a little and see that everyone in the story had a good time. Once the “work” was reframed as “fun” there was not enough “work” to go around for all who wanted in on the fun. Even Tom, though still responsible for the job, had a great time, engaged, entertained, delighted … as he changed hats.
See work God’s way
I almost couldn’t believe it when I learned that God’s idea for man’s delight in Paradise included work. Adam and Eve worked the garden. I began to notice how much I enjoyed working on things that interested me – so engrossed I’d lose track of time!!
But what about things that don’t interest us? Here is a key: we can learn to find the fun in work. We want to be active. We want to be engaged. We want to do things that are meaningful and rewarding. I’ll bet thousands of books and lectures have been made on this subject.
For people seeking God’s way, consider these words from Colossians:
And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.
Work is honorable and, with the right mindset, fun. True, in real life, not every chore will be a laugh a minute. But in work, we come alive, we serve, we become the players in this poem:
God has no hands but our hands
with which to give His people bread.
God has no feet but our feet
with which to walk among the almost dead.
We say that we are His and He is ours.
Deeds are the proof of this, not words,
And these are the proving hours.
I love this week’s song because …
At age 21, I received this new insight about work being GOOD around the same time I found this week’s song in a book. I’m delighted to share the song with you.
P.s. – Ladies, heed the lesson!
I can’t sign off without adding this coaching to the ladies: As this week’s song teaches,
don’t court a lazy man!
You might want to get married and have kids in the worst way. I’d say marrying a lazy man is close to the worst way. You want a man for a husband, not an “adult child” to care for! There is so much more I’d like to say on this but time and space forbid.
Ladies, remember the line from this song: “A lazy man I’ll not maintain!”
LYRICS: Young Man Who Wouldn’t Hoe Corn
Traditional folk song
I’ll sing you a song and it’s not very long,
It’s about a young man who wouldn’t hoe corn.
The reason why I cannot tell,
For this young man was always well.
He planted his corn in the month of June,
And by July it was knee high;
First of September Come a big frost,
And all this young man’s corn was lost.
He went to the fence and there peeked in,
The weeds and the grass come up to his chin;
The gypsum weeds they grew so high,
It caused this young man for to sigh.
He went down to his neighbor’s door,
Where he had often been before; Saying,
“Pretty little miss, will you marry me,
Pretty little miss what do you say?”
Here you are a-wanting for to wed,
And cannot make your own cornbread;
Single I am, single I’ll remain,
A lazy man I’ll not maintain.
Well, he went down to the pretty little widder,
And I hope by heck that he don’t git her;
She gave him the mitten sure as you’re born
All because he wouldn’t hoe corn.
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Dear reader, let me hear from you! Did you also hate work and later learn to love it? How did that happen for you? What would you want to tell young people about work? Please get in on the fun and share your comments below, and help me out here … with the work.
God bless you lots!